unsociable — not sociable; having, showing, or marked by a disinclination to friendly social relations; withdrawn.
cold — Something that is cold has a very low temperature or a lower temperature than is normal or acceptable.
distant — far off or apart in space; not near at hand; remote or removed (often followed by from): a distant place; a town three miles distant from here.
neighborliness — having or showing qualities befitting a neighbor; friendly.